Re: ISA Bollox Pt 2

On Nov 3, 7:30 pm, Paul <chillisa...@googlemail.com> wrote:
> On 2 Nov, 23:45, "Nick Grimshaw" <n-grim1...@gmail.invalid>
wrote:> At th
e time of sentencing for my conviction of inciting the distribution of
> > indecent images ten years ago, my sentence was five years pribation. I 
was
> > then banned from working with children and seeking contact with childre
n
> > both for three years.
>
> > Fair and understanable.
>
> > The probation didn't suggest  I'd be normal, but did fill us all with
hope
> > we could retreat away from this into a world with a girlfriend, but we'
d
> > have to tell them ourselves. At which point do you tell your spouse you
have
> > had a conviction for child porn.
>
> Very early in your relationship, if you don't it will probably become
> impossible later on. Would you want to life a lie ?
>
> If you don't tell her, and she finds out at some stage, you'll
> probably be out on your arse with no chance of reconcilliation
> (depends on the seriousness of the offence, and the woaman as well).
>
> I know you wont want to hear this, but your chances of finding
> happiness are very much diminished, because of this conviction.
>
> How do you feel about this ?, do you honestly consider yourself
> totally reformed, and no risk whatsoever ? Do you trust yourself ?

Then again, who wants an ignorant, misinformed sow for a partner?

Disclose ***relatively early***, you never know, you might have
something in common ;)

WM
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